Halos lahat ng tao narerealize nila kung ano talaga yung gusto nila sa buhay at the mid of 40's? Base on what I have read earlier from LifeHacks Org., there's a lot of people living their lives having no clue what they want.
If you don’t want to spend your life wandering aimlessly,pwede mong sundin ang TIPS nato for you to find out what exactly you want in life.
*BE SELFISH SOMETIMES
You can’t pinpoint exactly what you want in life if you’re constantly sacrificing your time and dreams. Always remember that it’s okay to put yourself first, because if you don’t, then no one else will.
*REGRET NOTHING
It’s time for you to live it exactly the way you want to. If you constantly regret things you did or didn’t do in the past, then you won’t be able to move forward. Don’t live in the past. Live in the present…and the future!
*FIGURE OUT WHAT YOU NEED
Minsan, mahirap talagang e.figure out kung ano yung kailangan natin. so sit down and think about what you need the most. Pamilya mo ba? The freedom to express yourself? Love? Financial security? Something else? If it helps, you can make a list of priorities. Isipin mo rin kung ano yung mga bagay na dapat mong e sakripisyo.
*DETERMINE WHAT BOTHERS YOU
You can soar only by pushing back against something you don’t want. Alamin mo kung ano yung pinaka nag papa-upset sayo, and be specific about it. Don’t just say that you hate your office job. Pinpoint exactly why you hate it. Sawa ka na bang may boss? pagud ka ba bang maging sunod-sunoran sa ibang tao? kulang ba yung ra rereceive mong sweldo? ayaw mo ba ugali ng mga tao sa paligid mo? Or all of the above? What bothers you, and how can you fix it? Gaano ka ba ka determinadong solusyonan ito?
*DETERMINE WHAT TRULY MAKES YOU HAPPY
There’s no waste to life if you’re happy living it. Your happiness is the root of your desires. So take a few moments and really think about what makes you happy. Makasama mo mahal mo sa buhay? travelling? magkaroon ng sariling business? Walang amo? Financial freedom? Once you pinpoint the one thing that makes you happy the most, you’ll have a pretty clear idea of what you should strive for in your life.
*LET PEOPLE KNOW WHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO ACHIEVE
Don’t keep your goals and desires to yourself. Voice it all out! If you tell people what you’re trying to accomplish, they will most likely support you and give you new ideas. Sometimes mother does know best!
*STAY POSITIVE AND BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
Life doesn’t always go how you want it. Don’t feel dismay as your plans stray. Take control. Instead of freaking out, try your best to roll with the changes. You will get there someday. You’re just taking a little detour. Sometimes a positive attitude is all you need to keep going.
*PRAY AND TRUST THE PROCESS OF GOD
It always feels great when you succeed in the right way of path, remember Jeremiah 29:11, God said ''For I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.''
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